When we speak of "moving on" we visualize turning our back and walking away. But why would we want to walk away from a love, from a relationship that has been the very fabric our our lives for so many years? There is an inherent resistance to the concept of "moving on" which calls for a paradigm shift. This shift in paradigm begins with thinking of your healing process in terms of reconciliation and bringing your love and relationship with you as you continue on in your life.